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I believe there are multiple versions of how our lives can turn out, and that our decisions determine which version we get to live.
In other words, one choice can lead to different circumstances which allow new doors to open, until so many opportunities have opened up for you that you now have the chance at a whole different life than the one you were previously headed for.
That’s exactly what happened for me.
Let me tell you — I’m still whirl-winded. It’s coming up on a year since I met my significant other, and I still have moments where I’m in disbelief that this is my life.
It’s almost like I shifted the laws of the universe a little bit. I just never thought I’d be someone who was allowed to be this happy.
How did I get here? How can anyone get here?
You’ve heard it a thousand times. I’ll tell you one more, anyway: DO the thing that scares you. Do the thing that you know would be a great challenge for you, that would fulfill you, but that feels uncomfortable.
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